My problem with exposure and why I find it hard to post
I have tried at multiple stages in my life to grow a platform online, but have never been able to follow through.
I find it hard to share what I make, whether it be on a YouTube channel or on my very own website. Usually I start off with a little spark of motivation that helps me carry out the first step, but nothing more after that. I enjoy the feeling of being productive, like having a project to chip at in the background, and making it the best it can be. But I hate coming up to the part where it’s time to share it – and so I never really do.
In this post, I’m going to be as honest as I can about why I have been neglecting this site and all my other platforms. I also intend for this to be this website’s key post that contains my goals and intentions for being here.

Why I find it hard to post
Posting anything is usually a big deal for me.
A few days ago, I uploaded a video to my YouTube channel (not the first: there are many other ones hiding under the “privated” option). It was a little animation I made that I hadn’t intended to show to anyone when I first started working on it. As long as I liked it, I was happy, and no one was going to see it anyway, right?
Halfway through the process, I got that spark of motivation to start up my YouTube channel again. Suddenly, I thought that my animation would be the perfect first video to post.
After that, I started obsessing over every little detail a lot more. Now that I’d introduced the idea of showing it to other people, I didn’t like it as much, because the way I saw it, it was no longer “mine.” I wasn’t making it for me anymore, I was making it for my (nonexistent) audience.
Finally, I got to the stage where I was happy with the animation, or more so tired of working on it. I remember saying to myself: “OK, once the colours are finished, there is no way I’m adding shading and a background. That would take way too long.” …you can guess what I added after that?
But then I realised something: at the end of the day, no matter how perfect it looked, it was always going to be just 2 seconds long. So when I came around to editing it, I went for a more humble iMovie style, as I didn’t want to over-hype such a short animation.
My first attempt at posting the video was on a channel that no one even knew I had. I was still nervous. I wasn’t confident in the animation at all and even found it kind of stupid. I was, in effect, purposefully hiding the video from everyone. So what happened was only logical. The video got 0 views from anyone but me. I took it down a day later. But not for that reason.
I couldn’t ignore the feeling that I was already trying to be someone I wasn’t. I’m NOT a minimalist editor. I enjoy the editing process a lot, and ever since I learned how, I’ve always dreamed about going a bit over the top with my videos.
Then I understood that even if a 2 seconds long animation doesn’t “deserve” to be hyped up with high quality edits and a built-in behind-the-scenes look, that’s at least more what I would do. Keep in mind that all I mean by “high quality edits” is that I used Filmora Wondershare instead of iMovie. But that’s probably just me again trying to downplay my work.
The most important change this time around, though, was that I decided to post the video on my main channel, which at least one person knew about.
This was all a step in the right direction. Now that I’d made something I somewhat liked, it didn’t matter to me as much the amount of views it got. So I uploaded it. And guess what? The views part was no different, except for one thing: it had a like and a comment from my brother. For me, who shares about 2% of the stuff I actually make, that was an accomplishment.
So to answer the question, Why do I find it hard to post? The main thing is that I don’t like my work, at least when I make it with other people in mind. But I know that I’m going to have to work on this if I ever want to get something more out of my projects. And that brings me to the question, What do I want out of this?
Why I post
I made this website a few months ago in 2024. It was originally titled Adventure Savy, and apart from the fact that having a personal website is just cool, I made it because I wanted to share bits of my life and document my progress in achieving the goals I had at the time.

Today, things are a slightly different. Instead of exclusively sharing my thoughts, I want to share bits of my projects. It’s less a website for me, and more a website for my work, which is anything from drawing to animating to writing, to anything else I discover along the way.
I’m still asking myself what I really want out of this, if anything. I mainly just post and if people find it, they find it, and if they don’t, they don’t. I don’t put any effort into that actually happening, because I’m scared of that happening.
I’ve always done the bare minimum when it comes to growing a platform online. I post the thing, and I leave. I don’t want to show it to anyone. I don’t want to promote it. I don’t want to bring attention to – or even put that much effort into – something I’m not sure others will like. Otherwise that would mean some kind of commitment, and I’m not a fan of commitments. I prefer for exposure to happen “organically”.
I was going to say that on certain websites, blowing up out of nowhere can happen, and that it has happened to me, but now I’m thinking that actually isn’t true.
I used to have an animation channel, around 2017-2018 when they were getting very popular (I didn’t do it for that reason; I just loved animating). My channel was very steadily on its way upward, and I was confident enough in what I was doing to actually engage with my audience, plan collabs, and further hone my skills. Unfortunately this might have worked a little too well, for my numbers at least. I’d had my channel for about a month at that point, and during that time I had been exposed to a whole new side of the community.
I wasn’t really able to stand my ground back then, so I decided to take a different direction with my channel which wasn’t originally what I had planned, in order to keep up with everyone else’s expectations.
Eventually I realised it wasn’t the most positive place for me to be in, and I was scared that my success would trap me there. So, I ended up deleting my entire channel.
Like I feared, YouTube can become a commitment at a certain point, but to survive that, you have to enjoy what you do. And if you do enjoy what you do, what reason would you have to quit other than being overwhelmed and out of your comfort zone?
I’m not often proud of what I make, in the sense that I would go around and show it to everyone and not care what they say because I think it’s nice and that’s all that matters – like showing photos of my cat. I usually feel another kind of proud, like I love that one novel I wrote or the fan art I made for it on Procreate, but does that mean I would ever show it to anyone even if my life depended on it? No way. But that prompts the idea that… maybe I should anyway.
Final thoughts
There’s a decision I’m hiding from. Once I figure out my why – why I want people to read what I write, and watch what I make – then I could either take the quiet route, where I continue posting like this and let it reach people organically (which almost definitely won’t happen, at least for a very very long time), or I could get my work out there in the way I know I could if I really wanted to… and I don’t know if I do yet.
I hope I’ll be able to update you soon, but know that if I do decide to do something more with this website, I have a lot of exciting things planned!
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